
Today I decided to touch a little on a subject that may be in the back of all of a new bride's brain: starting a family. As I was wrapping my sister's gifts for her baby shower, and putting the finishing touches on her diaper cake (it was too cute not to share - so here is the photo), I started to think about not only my dreams of having some kids of my own, but also what new brides may be thinking as well.
My husband and I will be married two years this April, and we defiantly have baby on the brain. For personal reasons, we have decided to wait another year and let my sister's new addition take the spot light for a while. Yet many of my friends did not take the route of waiting. For instance, my maid of honor, Melissa, seemed to get pregnant almost instantly! (OK - maybe three months in.) By the time they celebrated their first anniversary, they had a beautiful baby boy in their arms.
Another friend, Micaela, waited only a year before getting pregnant and it was only because of insurance reasons. She comes from a large family, so she couldn't wait to start her large family as soon as possible. (and he's a handsome, full head of hair baby boy who was just recently born.)
Many brides start their wedding planning because the baby is on the way or recently born. It is defiantly an issue that I recommend you speak to your husband about before the wedding. Being on the same page about the details of your future together is very important. Some marriages end because of the lack of communication on this issue because one partner does not want what the other one does.
I will probably touch on this subject from time to time since it is defiantly on my mind. We will also be introducing Be In Love Baby that will offer adorable designs for baby shower invitations, baby announcements and young birthday milestones.
Whatever your feelings regarding children is, we wish any new couples the best of luck in their new journey. A new life is such a precious thing.
Labels: Baby, General Advice
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